Hi, IMHO its something that either will or wont develop in time between you and your dom/me. We began with a o/l relationship that has developed now into some r/l exploration, and it was after the first face to face meeting that we knew we were sinsere, and trust has started to reallly build beyond where i ever thought possible.

Having met and also spent many hours talking about where we would or wouldnt like to go, i found just in the last few weeks, myself feeling that now - now i can give him complete control, that i dont have any limits on what he does next time we are together. but that is based on months of learning to trust him, where i know his interests lie and what he is repused by, i know his limits and know he knows what would horrify me - so now i can say - he has complete control.

It is an amazing feeling of having thrown yourself off a physical and emotional cliff - trusting the other to catch you.

good luck xx Rosie