Like rosemaryj i'm very new here so my respons my not be as well educated or valid as most of the other posts, I would not call myself bratty nor do I think i would go out of my way to annoy the dom, I think i would try to listen to what -in my case- He said, however that doesen't mean i would never talk back or question him, in m ordinary life i am quite dominant and controlling, so I think that would be something hard to change in a sexuall enviorment if I'm feeling nervous or uncomfortable. this does not mean i think I would be cocky, but more questioning- although seeing as I have never been in any real life bdsm situations I wouldn't know exactly how I'd act.