How does submission make you feel?

It gives me a freedom I don't have words to explain. I can be the 'me' I could never allow people in my vanilla life to see.
It gives me a release from always having to be strong.

Why do you submit?

Because it is who I am. I don't submit to anyone calling themselves a Dominant but I know I can't NOT submit to my Masters will.

How do you resist arguing?

*smiling* there is no better advice than ksst's. Being a sub doesnt mean I don't have an opinion. Or don't feel my Master is wrong sometimes. But it is the way I handle those emotions and feelings. And ulitmately I know I will submit to His will. Regardless...

Any advice?[/QUOTE]

Maybe you are 'trying' too hard. Make the descision to submit... And then stop thinking about it. Give over... Free fall and then trust your dominant to catch you. If you can't trust Her with that...then you and Her need to discuss some basics before going forward.

If everything has been discussed and you are kneeling before Her, head bowed, at her mercy ...if that doesnt give you peace maybe denuseri has a point...as hard as it is to accept.

All the best...vicki