My preference is adoring and obedient.
I enjoy sojourns into other behavior, variety is always spicy, but over the long run, I want my girl to want to please me. I want my girl to adore me and show it. I want my girl to give herself to me for what ever purposes I desire.
And, this is the best part, being able to do that for me and me treating her that way is exactly what gets her own motor running. That I match her need for exactly that brand of domination.