Firstly, i read the advice in one of the forums that 'showing' him what i like during sex is better than telling him. If i tell him something he sees it as critisism and reacts in a confrontational way. If i SHOW him, its fun! Especially if he sees my reaction to what he is doing. This has helped me introduce aspects of what turns me on at times we are intimate. He is now starting to do these things without me having to show him every time
This is great advice. I'm new to everything as well, but I have an idea of what I need. I just wasn't sure how to go about getting it after the reception I got last time. I'm definitely going to take this approach this time to see if it reaps better results.