Quote Originally Posted by shins
I was having a conversation with my pet last night, and she asked "Why do I get so wet from being humiliated by you?" After spinning my wheels in thought for a moment, I realized "I dunno." She recognizes that during everyday life, random situations of humiliation affect her the same way that it affects all of us, and she would elect to have a root-canal instead of suffering humiliation.

So i guess my question is kinda 2-part.

1. Do others get turned on from being humiliated by their partner?
2. Does anyone have an opinion as to why its an erotic experience for some?
1. I would think they do from all I have read here and in other places.

2. My opinion is it has a hell of a lot to do with ones mind and how they perceive this humiliation. It has to be a matter of great trust to give control of your body to someone in the first place. Once you’ve made up your mind and accepted that you’re going to do exactly that then you sort of dream or imagine what they will do with it. Those are erotic thoughts all by themselves.

At the time you can’t imagine anything but erotic thoughts about the consequences of relinquishing that control. As stated in an earlier post, maybe even or especially over your own orgasm. You know your trusted partner respects you so you will comply with their wishes even if it is somewhat contrary to what you would normally accept as proper behavior just because they are asking/forcing you to do it. All this behind closed doors or in public, if that’s your thing, I would tend to think would make anyone excited and wet.

Once I can accept that I no longer control my own fate, all else becomes erotic and very sensual knowing it will eventually lead to the conclusion of why most do anything in the first place – love and/or sexual satisfaction.