Thanx!!

Yes to your first comment/question. "Old Guard" or "Leather Family" style BDSM, but it's long survived into the present day. "They" to a great extent dispise the Internet because it's opened up the lifestyle to everyone who is interested and greatly fred people up to find their own way and their own place, outside of the (old) Leather communities.

Those who can adapt continue to thrive. Those who don't continue to complain. LOL