::bows:: Sir, i am sorry... i'm a sub and perhaps should not be on here. However, i could not help but read this and find a relation between what You are going through, and what i have been through before. Sir, it seems to me that she wants to run when things get too hard. It appears she is not fully committed and doesn't want to get better. Some of those tasks are very easy to complete... as a sub, if i don't complete those tasks, it's because i am generally not interested. Perhaps You should talk with her and ask if this is what she really wants. her lack of committment just signals (to me atleast) that she isn't taking You seriously. That is completely unacceptable Sir... i hope things work out for You both.