There are many beginner's books available such as "Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns," "SM101" and "The Control Book" just to name a few.
There are many beginner's books available such as "Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns," "SM101" and "The Control Book" just to name a few.
Once you put your hand in the flame,
You can never be the same.
There's a certain satisfaction
In a little bit of pain.
I can see you understand.
I can tell that you're the same.
If you're afraid, well, rise above.
I only hurt the ones I love.
~It is the summer of my smiles - Flee from me Keepers of the Gloom. - Speak to me only with your eyes. - It is to you I give this tune.~
I am in the same boat as your wife. Six year into our marriage I said I couldn't ignore and stuff down my submissive side anymore. He is working hard, and seems to enjoy being Dominant. In addition to the books mentioned, which have been wonderful, he has also read The Loving Dominant, The New Topping Book, The New Bottoming Book and Different Loving. I also asked a trust Dom to mentor him by e-mail which has been a great support for him.
Best of Luck![]()
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