sigh.

if i smacked you about the head...

would it help?

perhaps your wife could interpret this for you. not everyone is as comfy here as you are sugar,

and when people make a suggestion here in a forum started by Jinn, we assume he will see it without You doing some sort of interpretative dance or whatever you planned to explain my post.

you can look at the forums and the last poster to post and see that i am not holding back on posting here.

i like posting here.

i also think that i had to decide to risk a whole lot to do so. and that others won't do it if there is abig flashy sign that advertises that fact.

i don't need my name on a list of really cool people who post here. you like that feature. i agree to disagree.