I had the same problem as you about finding the Forum. Tourguide chided me in another thread when I claimed they were 'hiding' it.

I do differ with you about the 'Top Poster' and 'Top Reviewer' lists, though. In both June and October I put on special pushes to bump up my Reviewer ranking. (I won't be doing that again. I think the quality of my reviews suffered.) I check the Poster ranking every week or so, just to keep track of who's active (my memory blurs the names from day to day). Usually newbies have a big spurt their first month, then stall out.

I suppose it's time to Google myself again. I was very surprised to read that "these posts are in their webcrawl." When I checked in June, I wasn't listed on Google, even though I'd been posting here for months, so I wonder when that changed.

If you're really worried about being known for posting to a "DEVIANT PORN SITE FOR LOSERS", maybe you could make up a nickname, instead of using your own.

Have a nice day.