No. I think it is a need in itself, sort of not to do with either.
In my case I do not think either. It is more like a mutual attraction.How many of you feel like you don't deserve your sub or that you are better than your sub?
I also do not feel like I need someone 'better' than myself..I have heard of this, but haven't been able to really understand it, nor am I quite certain in what way 'better'..?
Could you say more, VaAugusta?