Anglestar "So i have a question here. what if, you fall in love with someone, who you arent sure whether he is into this as well? will you bring it up? how will you bring it up? and... what if he is totally against it? will you still stay with him? or move on and hope to find someone who can accept this side of you?

You need to be so much in love that it will overcome a lifetime of sexual frustration for both people. Anglestar will not get the stimulation she requires and probably will not be able to give back the kind of stimulation that the partner requires.

How do I know? I been living with a partner that I love but who does not understand BDSM, and I cannot deliver on her need for romantic sex for 34 years.