is it hard for the dom.

[monodragon]

we are a very much a Vanilla couple but we has started exploring what we want sexualy..she has expressed her wants to be the top..so the other night she tried...and she broke down crying because she thought she was doing it wrong...she has a major lack of confidence..i have been working with her to build her up..i need ideas to help build her confidence that she is strong and powerful and amazingly sexual..just need some guidance so i make things work instead of exploding in my face