is it hard for the dom.

[Jennifer Williams]

is it hard for the dom

To do what?

i only ask this because i love my girl freind who will be my future to be wife/dom/slave

Pardon, but your question is a little confusing...she will be both your dom and your slave? Is she a switch? I only ask because in order to give you a proper answer, I want to make sure I understand your question.

but she has problems getting into it.

Such as? Problems getting into what?

i am worried i might be asking to much from her sometimes.i wondering what to do to.i thinks she need a help with her confidence.any ideas.

Do you have any examples of why you think you might be asking too much, or why you feel she needs a confidence boost? The more details you give, the better people will be able to give advice. : )