I completely understand Red's point of view, I tend to feel the same way on the subject, but I do understand that new members may not entirely understand having limits vs. having no limits.
I don't like to say I have no limits, because I do, but it's really how one views the context of what "no limits" means.
Having no limits is just plain silly, since there are so many different fetishes, ideas and kinks to choose from, there couldn't possibly be a person who would enjoy them all.
Then there's the reality of limits as well. Who really would consent to amputation, or death by some form of kinky play.
It also raises the issue of consensual nonconsent, which is what I have agreed to enter into. It's hard to wrap your head around it sometimes. I may not enjoy all of his kinks, but I've been told that it's not really my choice in the matter.
I like to say that that I have few hard limits, or things that are definately off limits. Most of those off limit things are kinks he doesn't enjoy either.
Everything else is either going to be tried or tried and thoroughly enjoyed.