I think so too. And I agree, I completely trust you not to harm me (in any permanent way)
That said, it took us a while to build that trust, Sir. That level of trust isn't for everyone, just like every other type of kink. *shrug* For us it was a goal to be worked toward, but for others that type of relationship isn't what they are looking for.
So, do I think we all need to overly censor ourselves for newbies? Not really, although sometimes we may need to explain ourselves and our situations.![]()