wondering where I can find male "sex workers?"

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Also... if you aren't particularly choosey, consider a sci-fi convention. They're full of needy young men, many are quite nice looking, most are intelligent, just socially awkward. Plus it has the added advantage of ongoing partying in the evenings... and there is often an active group of kinksters also attending.

Always, in my experience. The massive overlap between BDSM and fandom is a constant annoyance to vanilla fen, but in the UK they have accepted, with bad grace, that things like rope workshops and singletail demos are going to be on the program at most SF cons. Show up at one such dressed appropriately (I mean, clearly Domme or sub, as the case may be) and you should be sorted.