What you're really asking, though, is why YOUR dom/master likes an o/l sub in addition to you, right? I mean...I've read your other posts and I think that's what's happening with you right now, correct?

If so, have you asked him why he desires an o/l sub? (and someone very far away...so there's no real chance of "meeting")...

The point I'm trying to make is, why put the question out there for strangers...when what you really want to know is, "why aren't I enough?"

I'm sorry if this is not the case...but it wouldn't be the first time I've put my foot in it.