What constitutes "fat"? I've seen men say that women who are 20 lbs overweight are cows? I have customers (and I don't deal in the BBW fetish area) who tell me 300 lb women aren't fat to them.

Ugly? What is ugly? I don't consider myself attractive but not many women would if they had to compare themselves to the Jennifer Lopez' or Britney Spears' of the world.

Having said that, I've known a lot of dominant men in my life (known doesn't mean intimately, could mean via correspondence!) and many choose bigger women. A lot of bigger women have self-esteem problems (raises hand) but many don't. Some men just prefer more meat on the bones.

I recently talked with a so-called dominant male who told me he liked women over 250 lbs as he really enjoyed watching their bodies jiggle.

I see no problem with that