Tell him you are not capable of defining your own punishment (which in my opinion you are not because of your self proclaimed selfishness of not doing what you were instructed to do because you 'didn't feel like it').

Then direct him to the Dominant's Dungeon for ideas.

Quote Originally Posted by tigergirl View Post
i am a new sub with an online Dom. Things have been going really well for a month now, yes a few little humps but nothing major. Untill yesterday... A few weeks ago He gave me tasks that need to be done every day as part of training. i was to keep Him updated on how it was going, my progression etc... Well yesterday i determined (selfishly) that i was going to take the day off from His assignments. Then i had to update Him and had to confess that i didn't follow the rules. When asked why not my answer was that i didn't want to... direct disobedience, not good. So He asked me what my punishment should be, i am staring at a blank screen trying to think of what would be a good punishment for directly disobeying... Anyone have any suggestions??