i'm not trying to be a prude, here...

[Ozme52]

I saw nothing offensive in your original post.

When I was a young man I had both upper and lower age limits that appealed to me. Lower because I couldn't be bothered with immature types who didn't know what they wanted or who expected me to be one of many suitors "orbiting" them awaiting a condescending smile. Upper because I had no desire to be seen as a boytoy.

But my best relationships were all with older women who knew what they wanted and weren't "coy" about it.

There is a lot of sexual heat generated by lustful desire.

Nothing wrong with being lusted after.