i'm not trying to be a prude, here...

[alittlecuriousgirl]

Funny, isn't it? We, more 'mature' players think there aren't enough of us and too many young ones. Just a matter of perspective, I guess.
Anyway, good luck finding the right one(s). Have fun.

i didn't post this question to disrespect anyone by any means. i am not at all suggesting that older Dom/mes is "eww" or anything like that. in fact, that are truthfully a possibility.

i posted the question because i was curious as to why there in fact was such a considerable age gap. i'm pretty young and so the idea of having a dom/me old enough to be my grandfather/mother hovering over me still squees me out.

*and no, i don't normally use 'squees' to describe my reaction to something. just a side note*
sincerest apologies,
alittlecuriousgirl