Quote Originally Posted by Jennifer Williams View Post
Fetish, thank you for your suggestion! I presented it to my sub exactly as you said, with an attitude of "there's this guy at work who thinks he can serve me". My sub reacted quite positively, actually- he asked me what sort of things the guy at work was doing, and then he told me how he could do it better, and it was actually a really big turn-on and we had a very nice night
I think it is because males are always competitive and if you can channel that into a safe outlet then it makes things easier Glad it helped, anyway...

As for confronting the male at work, I think I will continue to try to simply not respond as best as possible and see what happens. There hasn't been anything overly inappropriate so far, and now that my sub knows, I feel so much less guilty and now I think it will just make the day rather entertaining.
Probably wise if it is not that overt. Just bear in mind that it could border on official harrassment (from either direction) so at some point, if it gets more overt, you may have to take pre-emptive steps.