I am a 21 year old submissive male looking to start a S/M relationship with a mistress. I am not very experience, but I would love to learn and serve a dominant woman.

Abrasion: ?
Age play: no 1
Anal sex: no 1
Anal plugs (small): yes 4
Anal plugs (large): no 3
Anal plug (public, under clothes): no 1
Animal roles: no 2
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders): no 4
Asphyxiation: NO
Auctioned for charity: NO
Bathroom use control: no 3
Bestiality: NO
Beating (soft): no (Not including spanking) 3, slapping, whipping
Beating (hard): NO
Blindfolds: yes 3
Being serviced (sexual): yes 4
Being bitten: no 3
Breast/chest bondage: N/A
Breath control: NO
Branding: NO
Boot worship: no, 5
Bondage (light): yes, 5
Bondage (heavy): no, 5 I would like to be tied up really tight. I want to feel completely helpless
Bondage (multi-day): no, 2
Bondage (public, under clothing): no, 2
Bondage and Sex: no 5
Breast whipping: N/A
Brown showers (scat): NO
Cages (locked inside of): no, 4. I think it would be really hot to be locked up in a small cage and teased.
Caning: no, 3
Catheterization: NO
Cells/Closets (locked inside of): no, 1
Chastity belts: no, 3
Chauffeuring: NO
Choking: no, 3
Clothespins breast/nipples: yes 4
Clothespins labia lips/clit: N/A
Clothespins body: no, 4
Cock worship: no, 0
Collars (worn in private): no, 5
Collars (worn in public): NO
Competitions (with other Subs): no, 1
Corsets (wearing): N/A
Cuffs: yes, 5
Cuffs (metal): no, 4
Cutting: NO
Dilation: NO
Double penetration: N/A
Electricity: no, 3
Enemas: no, 3
Enforced chastity: no, 3
Examinations (physical): no, 1
Exercise (forced/required): no, 1
Exhibitionism (friends): NO
Exhibitionism (strangers): NO
Eye contact restrictions: no, 4
Face slapping: no, 4
Fantasy abandonment: no, 3
Fantasy rape: no, 5
Fantasy forced deep throat: N/A
Fantasy forced cunt licking: no, 5
Fantasy forced rape anal: no, 4
Fantasy gang-rape: NO
Fisting (anal): NO
Fisting (vaginal): N/A
Flogging: no, 3
Following hand signals: no, 3
Following orders: no, 5
Foot worship: no, 5
Forced dressing: yes 3
Forced homosexuality: no, 0
Forced masturbation: no, 4
Forced nudity (private): no, 4
Forced nudity (around others): NO
Forced servitude: yes, 5
Full head hoods: no, 2
Gags (cloth): no, 2
Gags (penis shaped): no, 4
Gags (rubber): no, 5
Gags (tape): no, 2
Gates of Hell: ?
Genital sex: As opposed to other kinds of sex?
Given away to another Dom (temp): NO
Given away to another Domme (temp): NO
Given away to another Dom (perm): NO
Given away to another Domme (perm): NO
Golden showers: no, 0
Greetings rituals: no, 4
Hairbrush spankings: no, 2
Hair pulling: no, 4
Hand jobs (giving): N/A
Hand jobs (receiving): yes 5
Harems (serving w/other subs): NO
Harnessing (leather): no, 2
Harnessing (rope): no, 2
Having food chosen for you: no, 2
Having clothing chosen for you: no, 3
Head (giving cunnilingus): yes 5
Head (giving fellatio): no, 0
Head (receiving cunnilingus female only): N/A
Head (receiving fellatio male only): yes 5
High heel worship: no, 5
Homage with tongue (non-sexual): I don't know what homage is, but I lie tongue...
Hot oils (on genitals): no, 0
Hot waxing: no, 3
Housework (doing): no, 1
Human puppy dog: no, 3
Humiliation (private): yes, 4
Humiliation (public): NO
Hypnotism: no, 1
Ice cubes: yes 4
Infantilism: no 0
Initiation rites: no 2
Injections: NO
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage: no 3
Interrogations: no 2
Kidnapping: no 4
Kneeling: yes 4
Leather clothing: no 2
restraints chains: no 3
restraints leather: yes 4
restraints rope: yes 4
Lectures for misbehavior: no 5
Licking (non-sexual): yes 5
Manacles & Irons: no 3
Manicures (giving): no 1
Massage (giving): yes 4
Massage (receiving): yes 4
Medical scenes: no 2

Modeling for erotic photos: yes 3
Modeling for erotic videos: yes 3
Mouth bits: no 4
Mummification: no 2
Nipple clamps: no 5
Nipple cloths pins: yes 3
Nipple weights: no 3
Oral/anal play (rimming): no 4
Over-the-knee spanking: yes 5
Orgasm denial: no 5
Orgasm control: no 5
Outdoor scenes: no 1
Outdoor sex: no 1
Phone sex (serving Dom): no 2
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends): no 1
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce): NO
Piercing (permanent): NO
Prison scenes: no 2
Pony slave: no 3
Public exposure: NO
Public tasks: NO
Pussy/cock whipping: no 4
Pussy worship: no 5
Riding crops: no 3
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.): N/A
Rituals: no 2
Religious scenes: no 1
Restrictive rules on behavior: no 4
Rubber/latex clothing: no 3
Rope body harness: no 2
Saran wrapping: no 1
Scratching – getting: no 2
Scratching – giving: no 2
Sensory deprivation: yes 3
Serving: yes 5
Serving as art: no 1
Serving as ashtray: NO
Serving as furniture: no 3
Serving as a maid: no 3
Serving as toilet: no 1
Serving as waitress/waiter: no 2
Serving orally (sexual): yes 5
Serving other Doms (supervised): yes 3
Serving other Doms (unsupervised): NO
Sexual deprivation (short term): no 4
Sexual deprivation (long term): NO
Shaving (body hair): no 1
Shaving (head hair): NO
Shaving (pubic hair): no 2
Sleep deprivation: no 1
Sleep-sacks: no 2
Slutty clothing (private): no 3
Slutty clothing (public): NO
Spanking in private: yes 5
Spanking in public: NO
Spanking in bdsm parties: NO
Spanking pleasure: no 3
Spandex clothing: no 2
Speech restrictions (when, what): no 5
Speculums (Anal): no 1
Speculums (vaginal): N/A
Spreader bars: no 3
Standing in corner: no 3
Stocks (adjustable): no 3
Stocks (fixed): no 3
Straight jackets: no 2
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on): no 4
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by): no 4
Strap-on-dildos (wearing): no 1
Strapping (full body beating): no 3. Not too rough though. I don't want long term marks
Suspension (upright); no 3
Suspension (inverted): no 3
Suspension (horizontal): no 3
Supplying new partners for Dom: no 0
Swallowing semen: N/A
Swallowing urine: no 1
Swapping (with one other couple): NO
Swinging (multiple couples): NO
Tattooing: NO
Teasing: yes 5
Tickling: yes 4
Triple penetration: NO
Triple penetration by 3 males: NO
Uniforms: no 2
Including others: no 2
Vaginal dildo: N/A
Verbal humiliation: yes 5
Vibrator on genitals: no 3
Voyeurism (watching others): no 3
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others): no 2
Video (watching others): yes 3
Video (recordings of you): yes 2
Water torture: no 3
Wearing symbolic jewelry: no 2
Whipping: no 4
Wooden paddles: no 5
Wrestling: no 2