I found this link in my travels today. I look up BDSM'ish things each day. Trying to find my 'groove'. I am very much an 'energy' person who has strong leanings towards spiritualism. If any of you are interested and have time to read this and comment - would you please? I would love to know if this is how any of you see your BDSM experience?
It is a way of seeing one kind of bdsm experience, and quite a few people use pain that way, as other would use meditation or the like. I believe some people can also use long term strict bondage that way.