How do you find the right dom? I think its more about how do any of us find the right partner...Doms/subs alike. I was very lucky in my case. My girlfriend had been my best friend for years and knew every aspect of my sexual history because I am very open about things. She was somewhat inexperienced with anything outside of vanilla, but I think she saw me as a way to explore her fantasies because she knew me well enough to know that no suggestion would shock or offend me. Since we got into a sexual relationship, it has just been one fun new experience after another.

We keep taking it a little further every time. Its been a slow process...but very fun