Bluefarie: When ive been apart from my subby for Vday, I tend to rely heavily on mail order (for presents, cards and instructions) and text messages to get her in the mood, before a longish from the bed prior to sleep phone call, and a little over the phone fun not sure if any of that helps you at all.

This year Ive (hope shes not listening) ive got the ingredients for a relaxing bath (roses, orange blossoms, cream and honey), a very expensive massage oil, and some liquid latex (in red and black) probably send her off to the bath and make her favourite sushi, that sort of thing!

any one else care to add any more?