I was in the UK Special forces, and i think that we all had kinks and sexual prefrences, the UK has restrictions on gays, but i believe that is understandable. There is a buddy, buddy system and if you upset a person, you dont want his boy freind fucking up your life if you need his protection, because he is retaliating. I believe the Danish Army allow gays but they have very few wars, and in no way do i mean to insult the Danes or their Army with that remark. Other kinks? Well i believe that it would not interfere with their daily life, in fact, i think their vanilla relationships cause the most problems. There was one person i knew that had a boyfreind, but out of the army that i knew of, and he knew that i knew, but live and let live, he was not likely to mess with the other personel so i said nothing. He never once in 14 years asked why, but he gave me a lot of respect and it was a natural respect, but i have always been very broad minded.
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