Quote Originally Posted by Widget
I think that could be a whole other thread. I am not a woman that would tolerate anyone speaking to me in less than respectful terms. Any man that called me a slut or any other name would find they had more than they would want to deal with on thier hands.
I am with 100% on that Widget....except there is a point deep into play, where the term 'my slut' feels like the tenderest term of endearment I could here. Said then, and in that way, it reflects the bond of deep trust and acceptance that within agreed boundaries there are no 'no go' areas between us.

Said at any other time, and I am not sure which of us would be most horrified.

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