I also love bondage. But like others have said, I don't have to have it to submit. Every morning before we leave for work Lady K calls me into the bedromm for my morning belts. It's a real powerful feeling of submission to pull your pants down and lay face down on the bed and not move. On the other hand, it's pretty neat when she takes me to the basement and hooks my cuffs to the chains. Being forced or ordered to stay still is fun and having no choice in the matter is fun.