I think that could be a whole other thread.
You have your task W/B....
Yes I understand T/wolf- I could never understand the attraction of walloping the one you love.
Some time ago I carried on a fascinating correspondence with a woman who was interested in spanking. Talking to her made me think about things in a different light.
One day I was talking to lisa, & suddenly had a mental image of putting her over my knee & smacking her bum. First time I've ever had the urge- I told her so too, & she became aware of her behaviour quickly.
There was also the passage I read from 'D' about her flogger....I needed fresh air after that. It means so much more from someone you know.
If I may borrow your sig for a moment T/wolf- "She's out there alright, the one I'm dreaming of- but I can't have her dammit." (Well not at present anyway..)
Hey, don't worry about 'noobishness' -we're all learning every day.
Tojo