Safe sane consentual is the Lifestyle Creed
Without trust how can you know any of these are met
You trust that the other will respect your limits
You trust that the other will keep you safe/ do no harm
You trust that they are true to themselves as they are to you
You trust them with secrets you hold within , wants desires
You trust that they will allow you room to grow to explore

They trust you will communicate your needs
They trust that when they are gone , you still obey their commands

With time , effort and each step into the Lifestyle this trust builds upon itself
layer by layer of doubt , mistrust , old baggage disappears until all is revealed
you stand bare all needs exposed, this is achieved through honor loyalty and truth and the ultimate prize is Trust in yourself and them