Quote Originally Posted by Miner View Post
Perhaps you misread the action? I would light a lady's cigarette without a second thought, and when I smoked, I did so frequently - for dommes and female switches. It is indeed a power thing, I think, but not one where I submit in doing so. It's more along the lines of me dominating a female smoker, by treating her like a (helpless) lady.

I think you'll find that a lot.
It's a Southern gentleman thing and also an attempt to get my attention. I would hardly view treating me like a lady as domination of any kind, unless it's me dominating them. I find it amusing that a dominant would ignore the obvious submissives out there to try to fill up my dance card instead by using flattery or even a dare. You know what they say. Sex is power.