For starters as people have said "beauty is in the eye of the beholder". If you are as closed minded as you seem whipit then I feel bad for you becuase you are missing out on a lot of beautiful woman on the inside and outside. I myself, no matter how "hot" a girl is, can find her ugly if she a bitch, and no matter how "ugly" a girl is, if she is an aswome girl, I can look in her eyes and see the most beautiful person the whole world. Your for example, no matter what you looked like, I would find you ugly becuase your personality is so ugly and judgemental. You need to learn to care about people for who they are and see beauty in all people becuase there is. Each culture has its own defintion of beauty, and each person have there own defintion of beauty. And if your defintion is so confined by supposedly cultural limits, thats just pathetic, especailly for someone who is into bdsm, I would expect you to be more opened minded. I hope you try and take this post to heart becuase I think it will make people around you happier. Not to mention it will probally make you much more happy. I don't know what else to say to you.