Since i fall into this catagory i can honestly say my age has nothing to do with this lifestyle is the first thing i learned and glad of it because i was just to fearful that i was not going to look good in this or that and being as bashful as i am in alot of ways it was a big hurtle for me to try and overcome. But trust me when a person turns 40 or 50 Y/your like does not end or go down hill. i think women appreciate more and yes sometimes quieter but for different reasons.
Cheyanneautum