[QUOTE=PinkSugar;810168]They dont talk about them, and to prove the point just look how popular this thread was. [quote/]

quite ;-)

[quote]The mature character may just simply be that women get quieter as they age, hold thier breath and hope like heck ANYone would still find them attractive.[quote/]

I find that my age has to some extent liberated me from finding my worth in looks - and the looks of other people. Everything is just more relaxed. Perhaps it is also that my culture is rather less orientated around looks and age.

But I admit that a site like this, with lots and lots of young women (and a few males thrown in) is sending the message that bdsm is for the young and beautifull. At least if you are a woman. And that does annoy me. It is for everybody who enjoys it.