Thank you fetishdj
Thank you for that advise. He has been talking about meeting at a borders store for coffee, so it would be public. Dont really have anyone i can call with a safe call tho. I am not sure just what a dental dam is, but will look into it and find out.
Again thank you for the quick response. I can tell you i find that subbing to a male is exciting to me, but i am still a bit shaky about it.

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