I think it was a good discussion too. I've enjoyed reading everyone's opinions and thoughts on the matter. I never thought the word "cute" could be so offensive! LOL

Never in any way have I felt demeaned or diminished in my relationship with Mia'Cova. I am a very, very lucky woman. His words above brought me to tears when He read them to me aloud. And He knows I feel the same about Him.

My instincts to protect Him, help and shelter Him are very similar to those for my other friends and loved ones. The only reason that this instance was remarkable was because we are in a D/s relationship and I found it quite amusing that I was telling Him what to do and say (not that He did, of course, He's quite capable of handling it Himself. As am I). If it was my best friend hurting, I'd do the same. If it was one of my children.... well... you might not want to be the person on the other end of that.

Most female animals in the wild defend their territory every bit as much as the males, if not more-so. And even though He owns me, He is also mine and therefore my territory.

I do think I need to work a bit on how I word things when speaking to Him in these situations. Giving orders, while cute, is NOT acceptable in my book. I am happy that He gives me leniency in these matters, knowing that this is new to me and my normally dominant role does sometimes enter into my "sub" conciousness. (oooh, i like that!) But from now on, I will show him that I am displeased and that I wish to flay someone alive... instead of "ordering" Him to do so. LOL