[QUOTE=Soaul;801090]Trust has two sides... e.g., I trust there are many mASSters who will not abide by the intent of this post.

I must agree with this Soaul, how can u expect a sub to totally submit to you if you cannot be totally honest with her (or him). Lies form a barrier, something which if left unresolved can break even the strongest relationships. It of course works both ways and so to prevent hurt all round honesty is really the best policy.