Thanks so much Dixie Lass!
And sorry for the confusion - absolutely no distinction in my mind between O/L and R/L - I was referencing Bambina's concern that she could never be attracted to a "Real" man after her experiences with the perfection of porn....for my 2 cents worth a person and relationship O/L is just as "real" as one in R/L....they both involve emotional, mental (and sometimes) physical connections with other human beings...
Sincerely, no offence intended or implied to O/L relationships vs R/L!
ASG
xxx