Quote Originally Posted by tiamat View Post


I am wondering if a dom who is concerned that subs are discussing issues is not a tiny little bit insecure themselves??
Lol tiamat - why not ask my girl about that?

In my experience as a Dom there are a lot of reasons where communications restrictions can be a discipline issue. I have certainly used them in that way in the past. They can also be a sign of insecurity. Which is it? Without knowing the details behind the ban there is no way to determine that. I would have thought people would look for possible reasons besides the obvious.

In terms of this being a forum - I have no objection to fora at all - I just find it interesting that a question addressed to Dom/mes was being answered by subs for the most part. Was my comment perjorative? No, not at all. Just a comment (plus, I do so like to stir the pot - lmao)

(I hate the way the site times me out though)