I want to thank all of yall. Very post is full of good advice.
Bambina, guys have egos. Most want to please their mate. Most want their mate to have that mind blowing orgasm. But as for me I want to know a woman emotionally also. I want that connection that causes me to feel giddy inside from just being with her. That only comes from knowing each other and having common ground. In the old days it was called corting. Maybe you could slow down alittle, just enjoy a mans company. When your heart is feeling good about someone, even if it's only from a true friendship point, your body will follow.