Quote Originally Posted by Matin View Post
*sigh* i know. to have someone so under thumb that they lose their sense of self, somewhat...

it wasn't D/s, we know that, i just want to know if anyone else has thought about how it can contain similar elements, just in a context of trust and love. and whether anyone else has found that codependency was ever a problem as they begin practising elements of D/s in everyday life.


I think it is simply a matter of helping to rebuild her trust. Start slowly, and give her lots of latitude.