Well I'm going to throw in my 2 cent here. Based on what you are saying your friend has picked up on your STYLE to some extent. You aren't comfortable bringing her in, or confiding in her totally. Yet you aren't tolally negative to the concept, within reason. Well take it easy and direct her here as Dail. said. She'll probably go ape know about this site, and you will be her hero. Plus you and your friend can be friends as you move on if You want to.