I probably won't be much help as I also love porn, however, I realize most of the scenes and sounds may be a part of the "act". I rewind certain scenes over and over again. So, I'm with you on that. After watching, I usually want to rip the clothes off Sir (which is allowed if I ask nicely), but that's when the porn scenes/stars disappear. It's all about us and, I focus solely on Him.

So, yeah....you can have screaming orgasms or hot BDSM scenes like they have on porn. Try not to compare the real deal with what you see on the screen.

Last, but certainly not least: BDSM & D/s is mostly power exchange in my relationship and then the hot screaming sex!!