Quote Originally Posted by nikita
In order to enjoy the experience and thrive with the dom, there has to be respect and strong psychological control on the dom's part in order for you to listen and obey.
This statement by Nikita is spoken with both knowledge and truth
and that makes it all the more special.

Within the mind is power on all levels.

Countries have fought wars on merely the words and mind set of
an individual or individuals.

Religions are formed and doctrines established.

In the realm of D/s it can either make or break a relationship.

The physical body is in my view only the shell that holds
the truest of treasures which lays within the mind and heart.

Why have the body if you don't have the mind to go along with it?

For myself I prefer to "be in your head", that minute spark of
energy that races along the synapse and triggers in you a
response.

Speaking with somone and never having to say a single word
at times simply because you are "in there".

I would lean slightly toward the psychological.

To fully have the physical and for both to enjoy the benefits of
sharing there is an overwhelming need to have this symbiotic
mix among minds.