Physical strength

[damyanti]

Ok, just to clarify, the original question was not about anything non consentual or violent.

And I fully agree that the most important part of the domination is mental, and that physical strenght is not mandatory. We choose to submit....due to that invisible chemistry that comples us.


But we also cant disregard the fact that if you are strong enough to restrain a person, that the ability to physically overpower someone makes you automatically (more) dominant....

The question came from a conversation with a friend, where I presented a possibility of wanting to try switch, for an evening. A friend said ok, but that in all honesty I would most likely finish the evening in a very sub role as he re-confirmed his dominance. I took that as a challenge and said that we would see how it would end, his reply was, "No we wouldn't. It would end up as I wanted it."

Which brought me to the original question....considering that the physically stronger sub can easily turn the table on the Dom....is a physically inferior dominant partner the one truly in control?


LOL, I just like to explore where my mind takes me, sorry if I am just rambling. xxx