Is it OPP if the P doesn't know themselves if they are the OP's? After making more than my share of my own misjudgements I have come to the realization that I am responsible for my own actions and my own reactions. If I put myself out there and get a reaction I don't like, my only control is over myself. I have to make my own decisions on how to proceed, and not expect others to act or react as I expect. I have no control over their feelings or decisions. I can proceed and accept the reaction I get, I can remove myself from the situation, or change my own actions. If someone wants to be preceived as someone else's property and wants that respected, then make that clear and make all actions clear that this is the case. If the OPP acts ambiguous or inconsistent in actions there should not be shock or surprise or even disappointment in similar reactions...jmo