I've been there, hell I'm still there now.
Since I've been allowed to play with others, I find it's now worse than it was before. I feel like I am not being respected in the manner I should be.

Anyone who wants to play must adhere to certain restrictions that are in place. While I can play with another male, it is preferred that I only play with females. A couple is fine, but there are rules in place that all of us must follow.

I find that the Dominants I knew well, are the ones who try and break every rule that is in place.
Some have submissives and others used to but are now single. They insist that I should be allowed to experience what they have to offer, and my Dominant is being an asshole because he has put restrictions in place.
I fail to understand how one can follow a strict code and then break it so easily with someone elses' property.
They refuse to follow rules and only want to do what they want to.
I find that to be pathetic and rude.